This will cause the male to ejaculate involuntarily. Start at a low frequency, about 10 Hz. This gives a more completely ruined orgasm and can take the fun out of ruined orgasms even for those who have a strong fetish for it. Please stick to the topic of the entry. Masturbating to orgasm secretly but now we move into the realms of psychological play and it is therefore imperative that you both communicate effectively and ensure you are in agreement to this type of play. There is nothing like watching it pop up when my sub is finally allowed to cum and it's "Pop Goes the Weasel!
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I have kept my husband locked in chastity now for over 2 years If your sub isn't interested in ruined orgasms but you are, then using it as a threat or punishment is probably the best option. Dragan Nikolic December 22, at When I get close to orgasm I tell her in detail of my orgasm state. When his dick grows hard, it becomes more and more difficult to move his dick.